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May. 18th, 2026 08:59 pmI really hate the way fandom does polyamory. "So-and-so has two hands," yeah, most people have two hands. The number of hands a person has doesn't correlate to how equipped they are for a polyamorous relationship.
There are exceptions, obviously, but so much of it feels less like a real interest in character dynamics and more an excuse to not have characters make grown-up decisions. Just a rejection of any amount of inconvenience or discomfort or challenge. It's toothless.
And it's almost always a throuple or sometimes quad situation. There are honestly so many more ships I could see in V or parallel relationships vs closed circuits. For that matter, there are so many ways to do a closed circuit that would better suit different ships but no one told fandom at large.
Idk, it just comes off so often as shallow and childish and like a token effort to be ~progressive.
There are exceptions, obviously, but so much of it feels less like a real interest in character dynamics and more an excuse to not have characters make grown-up decisions. Just a rejection of any amount of inconvenience or discomfort or challenge. It's toothless.
And it's almost always a throuple or sometimes quad situation. There are honestly so many more ships I could see in V or parallel relationships vs closed circuits. For that matter, there are so many ways to do a closed circuit that would better suit different ships but no one told fandom at large.
Idk, it just comes off so often as shallow and childish and like a token effort to be ~progressive.
